{"id":175,"date":"2017-11-16T13:15:38","date_gmt":"2017-11-16T13:15:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.gayscene.org\/news\/?p=175"},"modified":"2017-11-16T13:15:51","modified_gmt":"2017-11-16T13:15:51","slug":"tips-creating-personal-advert-get-attention-want","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.gayscene.org\/news\/2017\/11\/16\/tips-creating-personal-advert-get-attention-want\/","title":{"rendered":"Tips on Creating Your Personal Advert to Get the Attention You Want"},"content":{"rendered":"

In theory, writing your Gay Personal Ad<\/a> should be quick and painless; just write a little about yourself and what you are looking for and you\u2019re done. In reality, how you fill out the ad can have dramatically different results. Not everyone wants the same thing and all those subtle little differences are what people subconsciously and consciously pick up on and react to.<\/p>\n

Here are some tips for how to advertise yourself in the most truthful and effective manner possible. Then, all that is left to do is enjoy the attention that comes your way.<\/p>\n

Honesty is key to getting what you want<\/strong><\/p>\n

Honesty is the most important aspect of the personal advert and that doesn\u2019t just mean honesty in the ad. Be honest with yourself about why you are there and what you want. Are you telling yourself that you want to find someone for a relationship, but all you can think about is fulfilling all those secret desires that are rolling around in your mind? If you just want sex or fetish fulfilment, be honest because there\u2019s nothing wrong with asking for what you want and after all, we all have sexual desires that need to be met. If you can\u2019t be honest with yourself, you\u2019ll mislead people online and not getting what you really want. So, be honest and go for what you truly want.<\/p>\n

Be Descriptive in your gay personal<\/strong><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be afraid to be as descriptive as you like. It might seem more mysterious to have a vague profile that seems open to anything, but it is much sexier to be confident in what you want. Do you want casual sex? Say so and get into the details. Are you there to fulfil other guy\u2019s fantasies? What guy wouldn\u2019t love that? Be honest and get into as much detail as you can and the response you\u2019ll get will be fantastic. If you still aren\u2019t quite sure what you want, say so and the guys will love your honesty and your open-mindedness.<\/p>\n

Include Photos if you want<\/strong><\/p>\n

The photos you put up are very important, as we are all very visual people and let\u2019s be honest, some guys won\u2019t even read your profile before they\u2019ve made a judgement based on your pictures. Add as many photos as you can, but think clearly about what these photos say about you. If your profile says you want a relationship, but your pictures are all abs, biceps and buns you\u2019ll be giving a very different impression. Also consider who else is in your photo. Profile photos with other people can be very confusing and if a guy spends too long trying to work out which person in the photo is you, the photo has failed. You need to have at least one photo that is just of you, preferably one that shows a realistic portrayal of you. Selfie angles are tempting, but honest photos make an honest profile.<\/p>\n

Putting yourself out there for everyone to see can feel scary, but your profile is entirely in your control, so don\u2019t be afraid, and confidently ask for what you want from your gay personal and post it on gayscene.org today for free!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

In theory, writing your Gay Personal Ad should be quick and painless; just write a little about yourself and what you are looking for and you\u2019re done. In reality, how you fill out the ad can have dramatically different results. 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