{"id":208,"date":"2018-03-07T15:04:59","date_gmt":"2018-03-07T15:04:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.gayscene.org\/news\/?p=208"},"modified":"2018-03-07T15:04:59","modified_gmt":"2018-03-07T15:04:59","slug":"6-tips-on-being-a-better-bottom","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.gayscene.org\/news\/2018\/03\/07\/6-tips-on-being-a-better-bottom\/","title":{"rendered":"6 Tips on being a better bottom"},"content":{"rendered":"

Being a bottom is traditionally seen as relinquishing some of the control and letting your top lead the way down whichever sexual path you\u2019re following. But actually, just because you\u2019re below doesn\u2019t mean that you just lie there and take it. In fact, it\u2019s often better for the top if you do seize back some control.<\/p>\n

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Enjoying the view does not mean having nothing to do. Being a bottom is all about penetration and what is sex without penetration? You have a crucial role and very few people like to walk away from a sexual encounter and think \u201cWell, I enjoyed myself and that\u2019s all I care about.\u201d Sexual intercourse is very much a reciprocal activity and a vast amount of the enjoyment is knowing that you\u2019ve pleasured someone else as much as you have yourself, and you must have enjoyed the pounding in the process.<\/p>\n

So, what are the tips on being a better bottom?<\/strong><\/p>\n

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  1. Personal hygiene. It\u2019s SO important. You don\u2019t need to be discussing it over your cornflakes in the morning, but being clean and fresh down there is an absolute must (specific sexual situations aside). Regular showering and douching not only makes the experience more pleasant for your top, it also allows you to feel relaxed and liberated which in turn will enhance your sexual pleasure.<\/li>\n
  2. Be clear on what you want and steer clear of generic gasps of \u201cOh yes! Fuck me harder!\u201d You\u2019re a man, you don\u2019t have to fake it and by being involved and articulating exactly what you want and what you\u2019re feeling is going to improve the top\u2019s sexual experience. Tell your gay escort or sexual partner exactly what you want and how you like it and you will have the best gay sex experience ever.<\/li>\n
  3. Keep it real. Moans, gasps, screams, grittiness, bites, commands \u2013 these are all interactive and will make the top feel like he\u2019s doing his job properly. And by doing that you are also bolstering his ego, not being selfish.<\/li>\n
  4. Think about your own personal grooming. You don\u2019t have to shave it all off and look like a baby if you don\u2019t want to but think about what you like to see down there and then consider what your top would like to see down there. The rule of thumb is to go for the crotch look that you fantasise about. Having pubes hanging down round your knees is very rarely a good look. Plus \u2013 the confidence. Oh, the confidence! If you like what you see, then he will too.<\/li>\n
  5. Don\u2019t feel tied to a stereotype. Just because you\u2019re a bottom doesn\u2019t mean that you need to be super feminine or overly submissive. This is a role that you\u2019re playing, not a contracted position. It\u2019s your own personal experience so don\u2019t be afraid to make some decisions. As long as his penis is in your hole, and he can leave it there, then you can guarantee that your top will be a happy boy.<\/li>\n
  6. Being a bottom doesn\u2019t mean confining yourself to one positions. Move it around, change it up, don\u2019t be afraid to deviate from the norm. Missionary, spooning, straddling him when he\u2019s sitting up in bed \u2013 why not give it a try!<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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