gayScene.Org<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\nFortunately, the sexy men on gayscene.org are just waiting for ad\u2019s just like yours to find a person just like you. Knowing what you like, or fantasising about it in your head or watching some great porn videos is one thing, being able to write down exactly what you like and find to be able to explain in writing what you are looking for can be much harder. You may like to be spanked, so what you need is someone who likes spanking, similarly if you are a top then you want to find a great bottom to try all your kinky ideas out with. It is not really enough to say you like spanking, you have to say whether you are the sub or the dom and those words can be hard to find. Equally you don\u2019t want to put any prospective interested men off by what you say in the gay personal.<\/p>\n
Finding someone who can indulge in your fetish with you can be difficult, so we have some great tips on writing that ad to find the guy or guys you want to connect with.<\/p>\n
Use all the available space<\/strong><\/p>\nWriting down specifically and exactly what you are looking for and using all the available space within the advert makes you look serious about what you are looking for and not just throwing out a net to see what comes back. Don\u2019t be tempted to repeat yourself, there is no need.<\/p>\n
Don\u2019t Add Uninteresting Extras<\/strong><\/p>\nIf you are looking for something specific, then it is likely that people reading your gay personal ad are too. They want the details of how kinky you are and what you want, they don\u2019t need to know about your comic collection!<\/p>\n
Ask for what you want<\/strong><\/p>\nDon\u2019t be shy. If you want someone to pound you hard, then write that down. If you are looking for a sub to dominate then say so and explain exactly what you would like to do to them. This will not only find you the connection you are looking for but also at any future meet will not leave anyone disappointed.<\/p>\n
Discuss your experience<\/strong><\/p>\nIf you are a complete newbie to this and are just testing the waters, it is ok to say so, you may find many men who would love to show you a thing or two and it will help with any future meet. Sexual bravado is not required, honesty is always best.<\/p>\n
Add a Picture<\/strong><\/p>\nA picture can always paint a thousand words so leave a photo of yourself I your fetish gear or post a picture of what you would like to have done to you or a picture if your favourite sex toys or equipment you want to use. Want someone to put you in your cage and treat you like a dirty slut \u2013 post a pic of the cage or even of you in it!<\/p>\n
Be honest and open about what you want from posting the gay personal and see what happens next!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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