{"id":428,"date":"2020-10-13T11:04:04","date_gmt":"2020-10-13T10:04:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.gayscene.org\/news\/?p=428"},"modified":"2020-11-19T11:04:22","modified_gmt":"2020-11-19T11:04:22","slug":"gay-fetish-terms-you-should-know-when-using-a-gay-personals-site","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.gayscene.org\/news\/2020\/10\/13\/gay-fetish-terms-you-should-know-when-using-a-gay-personals-site\/","title":{"rendered":"Gay Fetish Terms You Should Know When Using A Gay Personals Site"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>For a smooth and easy ride, when navigating your way through a gay personals site, it really helps to be familiar with the gay fetish lingo. Using the correct abbreviations on gay personals websites like <a href=\"http:\/\/www.gayscene.org\">www.gayscene.org<\/a> stops you feeling shy or embarrassed about asking for what you want.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re on the lookout for your next potential sex partner, on a gay personal site, use our alphabetically-listed guide to identify the kink and fetish labels that are clearly stated on the gay escort profiles.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Gay Sex BDSM &#8211; <\/strong>Bondage and Submission is a specific type of S&amp;M (see below) activity that is the ultimate form of sexual trust and respect. It typically involves the use of leather, metal handcuffs, or other restraints to dominate your partner.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Gay Sex CBT<\/strong> &#8211; Cock\/ball torture is a pleasure\/pain punishment that is sometimes dished out to \u2018subs\u2019.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Gay Sex Dom\/Dominant<\/strong> &#8211; In a BDSM relationship, the \u2018dom\u2019 is the person who restrains the submissive. Within the gay community, a dominant is the guy who instigates sexual activity.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Gay Sex FF<\/strong> &#8211; As a fist fuck is a niche sexual experience, it requires a great deal of preparation, to minimise damage to the tissues of the rectum. Wear gloves and use lots of lube.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Gay Sex Hanky Code<\/strong> &#8211; The hanky code originated in the 1970s, and was an easy and effective way for gay and bisexual men to advertise their sexual preferences. A hanky to the left, means you are a \u2018top\u2019; wear it to the right are you\u2019re a \u2018bottom\u2019.<\/p>\n<p>Colour meanings:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Black \u2013 you\u2019re interested in S&amp;M<\/li>\n<li>Dark blue \u2013 you\u2019re keen on anal sex<\/li>\n<li>Light blue \u2013 oral sex is for you<\/li>\n<li>Brown \u2013 scat (poop) is your thing<\/li>\n<li>Green \u2013 means this gay escort is for hire!<\/li>\n<li>Grey \u2013 is for bondage<\/li>\n<li>Red \u2013 you\u2019re into fisting<\/li>\n<li>Yellow \u2013 waterplay (piss play) floats your boat<\/li>\n<li>Orange \u2013 you\u2019ll try anything!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Gay Sex Leather &#8211; <\/strong>This is a gay man who gets off wearing, or by fucking or being fucked by a guy in leather.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Gay Sex Nipple Torture &#8211; <\/strong>Intensely erotic, nipple torture can range from licking to twisting, and\/or using clamps.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Gay Sex Safe Word &#8211; <\/strong>Every sexually active gay man should use a \u2018safe word\u2019 when exploring new sex practices. It is used in role-playing sex games, BDSM, and other forms of kink and torture.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Gay Sex S&amp;M (Sadomasochism) &#8211; <\/strong>S&amp;M involves two people, and pain that is both inflicted and received consensually.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Gay Sex Slave\/Master &#8211; <\/strong>The slave (or \u2018sub\u2019) is someone who willingly allows their master (\u2018dom\u201d) to control them. This can be for an hour of erotic pleasure, or for life.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Gay Sex Sub\/Submissive &#8211; <\/strong>A \u2018sub\u2019 is someone who submits to a \u2018dom\u2019 and is also usually the person that\u2019s restrained in a BDSM relationship. In a sexual encounter, a sub is also the passive receptive person. And if you see the word \u2018switch\u2019 it\u2019s letting you know that the gay man enjoys domination AND submission.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For a smooth and easy ride, when navigating your way through a gay personals site, it really helps to be familiar with the gay fetish lingo. 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