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When it comes to offering easy access to hot dates and NSA sex, not all gay hook up sites<\/a> are created equal. You\u2019ll need to check out the gay message board to find out if a site has the potential to deliver what you\u2019re looking for. And while you may find plenty of gay guys who are sexy and keen to date you, there are also the guys that are best avoided\u2026<\/p>\n

The Hench Macho Man<\/strong><\/p>\n

See that seriously hot and horny guy with the rock-hard abs and the killer smile? Well, there\u2019s a real chance that\u2019s he\u2019s too good to be true. The outward perfection is probably covering up internalised issues that you need to steer well clear off. This guy is only interested in hooking up with manly men who share his negativity and insecurities.<\/p>\n

The Racist<\/strong><\/p>\n

The good-looking guy with the detailed profile that clearly states he has a preference for his own race really isn\u2019t worth giving your time and energy to. No matter how damn hot he looks.<\/p>\n

The Sizeist<\/strong><\/p>\n

This sly attention seeking guy\u2019s preference is not quite so obvious. As someone who devotes a great deal of time to maintaining his personal maintenance standards, he\u2019s exceptionally picky about everyone\u2019s body size. Unless your body shape and physique conform to his spec, this guy is unlikely to give you a second glance.<\/p>\n

The \u2018Raw Only\u2019 Guy<\/strong><\/p>\n

All gay men know that sex without a condom feels great but making that requirement an essential obligation is not good. The \u2018raw only\u2019 dude is only going to be interested in you, if you\u2019re not bothered about practicing safe sex.<\/p>\n

The \u2018I\u2019m Not Sure What I\u2019m Looking For\u2019 Guy<\/strong><\/p>\n

It\u2019s so easy for gay men to use gay hook up sites and apps that sometimes a dude will post a profile, or message, before he\u2019s even worked out what he\u2019s looking for. While there\u2019s nothing wrong with only looking to chat, don\u2019t let this guy take up all the time that you could be having fun, and sex, with someone else.<\/p>\n

The \u2018Relationship Only\u2019 Guy<\/strong><\/p>\n

Even though you may be checking out a gay hook up site<\/a>, don\u2019t be surprised to find the \u2018relationship only\u2019 guy lurking there. He\u2019s clearly covering all bases, in the hope of finding Mr Right, instead of enjoying dating Mr Right Now.<\/p>\n

The Potential Stalker<\/strong><\/p>\n

Beware of the gay guy who bombards you with messages, texts and dick pics before you\u2019ve even agreed to meet in person. Any man who is so obsessive has the potential to become your number No1 fan and stalker.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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