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Safe words and danger words have become synonymous with great gay sex, here is an overview of what they are and how to use them. When you are chatting to guys online on great gay chat sites like www.gayscene.org<\/a> remember to discuss these to have the best gay sex of your life<\/a>.<\/p>\n

What are These Words?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Safe words have been around forever and they\u2019re a must if you want to push boundaries with your partner and explore previously unknown fantasies or take things further than ever before. Safe words represent one of the core elements of sex \u2013 consent. This is why it\u2019s vital to have your exit strategy planned if you need it; no one should carry on doing something that they\u2019ve changed their minds about.<\/p>\n

What Does a Safe Word Do?<\/strong><\/p>\n

In a nutshell \u2013 it\u2019s designed to take you, quite literally, to safety. If you\u2019re planning to change things up in the bedroom and perhaps try role play, bondage, experimenting with whips and chains, then you should have a conversation with your partner beforehand to decide on a word or phrase which means \u201cHey, I\u2019m not comfortable with this now, you need to stop.\u201d It\u2019s very important to discuss the concept fully with your partner so that you\u2019re both guaranteed to be on the same page when it comes to your bedroom antics, and you can relax in the knowledge that you have all bases covered. You may even want to incorporate the words \u2018No\u2019 and \u2018Stop\u2019 into your bedroom play without meaning them.<\/p>\n

The word you pick doesn\u2019t need to be overly complex, but it does need to be a word which stands out enough to be instantly recognisable, but equally not part of everyday conversation. The place name of where you met or first had sex, or the name of your favourite restaurant are both along the lines that you should go down when deciding on your safe word.<\/p>\n

What Does a Danger Word Do?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Imagine this: you\u2019re sitting at work and thinking about the sexual fun you\u2019d like to indulge in later. A particularly naughty scenario that you\u2019re both familiar with pops into your mind and you want to suggest this to your partner. Send them a text message! Perfect. But typing out instructions is hardly in the spirit of the game and it\u2019s quite likely to knock your libido down a peg or two. But this doesn\u2019t need to happen. Like with a safe word, discuss the concept of danger words with your partner so you both have a way of signalling what you would like to do without having to spell it out. If you\u2019d like to have a sure-fire way to kick start your naughty antics without a few minutes of discussion first, then choose a danger word which lets your partner know exactly what\u2019s on your mind and what you want to do about it.<\/p>\n

Again, it\u2019s important to choose a word which is immediately recognisable, but also not something that can be misconstrued or slip by unnoticed.<\/p>\n

Safe words and danger words \u2013 bring your imagination into the bedroom and give in to your basest desires.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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