{"id":768,"date":"2023-12-10T11:39:14","date_gmt":"2023-12-10T11:39:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.gayscene.org\/news\/?p=768"},"modified":"2023-12-29T11:40:44","modified_gmt":"2023-12-29T11:40:44","slug":"avoid-porn-sex-and-have-great-real-sex-today","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.gayscene.org\/news\/2023\/12\/10\/avoid-porn-sex-and-have-great-real-sex-today\/","title":{"rendered":"Avoid Porn Sex and Have Great Real Sex Today"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>In the digital age of absolutely everything being easily available to watch and download, it takes incredibly little effort to scout out the porn that turns you on. Amateur, fetish, twink, bear, BDSM \u2013 it\u2019s all out there for you to watch at your whim.<\/p>\n<p>But where porn has become the work of a moment to source, it\u2019s important to remember that it is only pornography \u2013 the medium by which arousal and orgasms are induced (that sounds clinical, but it really isn\u2019t!). Porn is not some pseudo-Joy Of Sex manual either, and that\u2019s important to remember.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.gayscene.org\/\"><strong>Post a Gay Personal<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p>To find someone who likes what you like and to make real connections for better and real <a href=\"https:\/\/www.gayscene.org\/\">great gay sex post a personal today<\/a> on <a href=\"http:\/\/www.gayscene.org\">www.gayscene.org<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>What is Porn Sex?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If we had to make a list of the words that we attach to porn, most of us would include some of these:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Naughty<\/li>\n<li>Daring<\/li>\n<li>Dirty<\/li>\n<li>Extreme<\/li>\n<li>Adventurous<\/li>\n<li>Taboo<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Amongst many others! But what this type of word shows us is that we see what we want to see \u2013 not that which is representative of our own sex lives. And nor would we want it to be \u2013 would we?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Great Gay Sex<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Now this comes down to personal preference \u2013 what is one person\u2019s great is another\u2019s bad. But in general, a personal sex life should be close, caring and trusting \u2013 as well as adding in some spice as and when. It takes time to build this up with a partner, and for most of us sex remains in some part a mystery, some parts trial and error and in other parts a learning curve. But it\u2019s not a competition, there are no prizes for who gets the most orgasms in their life (although that would be an interesting study) and it\u2019s something that gets adapted and improved over time. So now we\u2019ve established what great gay sex could be, it\u2019s time to take a look at how a gay escort can teach us.<\/p>\n<p>First and foremost, let\u2019s look at credentials. A gay escort will have multiple experiences and techniques that he can demonstrate during your gay sex session. He is totally there for you and your pleasure and there\u2019s no right or wrong, or \u2018success\u2019 needed. It\u2019s about finding out what works for you during trial and error and achieving the ultimate satisfaction. Whereas some of us can feel inferior compared to on-screen sex gods, a gay escort can teach you how to be an equal in a sexual situation. Here are some home truths:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Gay sex is not all about looks and bodies. Very few of us have a perfect physique! But it shouldn\u2019t matter a jot to your partner during real sex.<\/li>\n<li>Its not about the most extreme\/demanding sexual positions and acts.<\/li>\n<li>A gay escort can teach you how to take it slowly \u2013 foreplay is good play. And learning to enjoy every stage will ultimately find you the most pleasure.<\/li>\n<li>Erogenous zones. These elusive sites on our bodies are not always easy to identify. But your gay escort will have the best ideas about how to find them\u2026\u2026..<\/li>\n<li>And lastly \u2013 teasing and experimenting. There\u2019s no rule book and it\u2019s good to run through a few ideas before you take your ideal partner to bed.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In the digital age of absolutely everything being easily available to watch and download, it takes incredibly little effort to scout out the porn that turns you on. Amateur, fetish, twink, bear, BDSM \u2013 it\u2019s all out there for you to watch at your whim. 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