Hi, I'm a 50 year old gay guy who has had a lifelong issue with intimacy and showing affection. I used to be able to relax a little when I was drunk but I gave that up 13 years ago and have been celibate since. I actually have a high sex drive but it's mostly focused on online porn.

I'm not your average 50 year old, I take care of myself at the gym, love talking to people of all ages and love learning about other people. I'm also exceptionally masculine which tends to make people think I'm much tougher than I am. I am someone that puts other people first and sorts out their problems!

I'm looking for someone who can show me some kindness, take charge for a bit and help me discover my softer side. I'd love to become more physical but I'll get overwhelmed and wimp out. I'd love to hear from someone on the South Coast who can help over a period of time. I'm not going to become clingy or treat you with anything other than respect.

Dawid