Why do Gay Men Enjoy Casual Sex?

The benefits of staying casual when it comes to Gay Sex!

When it comes to relationships, there are many differing ideas, and preferences, with regards to exactly what it is that keeps a connection healthy, having said that, you find that many gay men tend to prefer keeping their sex casual. This means that they appreciate open relationships, one night stands, sex friends, or alternatively as a couple they seek others to have sexual encounters with.

There are many reasons for this, not least of which is an acknowledgement of the belief that love doesn’t necessarily represent sex. You may be compatible in every way otherwise, but sometimes not quite so within the bedroom.

So what are the benefits of keeping things casual?

You don’t ever wear out that special excitement which is first experienced when you hook up with someone. You may like to be versatile in the bedroom – whereas your partner is primarily only a “top” or “bottom” – so you can find partners to accommodate your needs. Keeping the emotional side away from the sex is a great way to really be true to yourself. You can explore your fetishes and fantasies without the worry that you may accidently hurt, or offend your significant other.

Casual Gay Fetish Sex

Many men like to experience threesomes, or ‘moresomes’, this is where you and your partner can both have casual sexual encounters at the same time. Going out to gay saunas together is a brilliant way to meet up with others for some quick, no-strings attached fun. These areas are dark and discreet, and you can play with as many guys as you like. Attending Fetish Nights and sex clubs is a great way to meet other men too. Meeting up for casual sex in this manner not only helps to keep your relationship healthy, but also helps the upkeep of your personal well-being too, as sex is what keeps us ticking over in many respects, both mentally and physiologically.

Casual Sex on Gay Forums

There are so many opportunities for gay guys to fulfil their sexual desires in a safe and controlled way, that meeting like-minded people for no-strings attached sex has never been easier. In this modern world of smart phones and computers, you can meet up with other guys within hours. There are websites and mobile phone apps which are designed specifically for this purpose; these sites are designed so you connect with people whose preferences and requirements are compatible with your own needs. On GayScene.Org, for example you can post your fantasy or sexual requests and wait for your perfect match to reply.

Commitment Free Gay Sex

Keeping sex casual can also make life easier in that you don’t have to put in the level of commitment that maintaining a relationship may entail, yet you can still enjoy the perks of what relationships can offer. Keeping things simple means that you can fully experience – and be comfortable with – your own sexuality; all of which helps keep us grounded in life.

So whether you’re into BDSM, looking for a bear or a twink, all of your desires and sexual needs can be sated purely by keeping things casual. It’s no wonder the majority of gay men like to keep it this way, as they reap the benefits with zero accompanying hassle and fuss, and no great expectations are placed upon them, so all they need to do is relax and enjoy the sex.

With hectic schedules and busy lifestyles, life can seem demanding enough, so casual sex is an excellent way to unwind; you can truly let yourself go and just be “in the moment” with like-minded others with no worries. It really isn’t surprising that gay men often like to keep things casual.