DO – make sure that you protect yourself. Keep your personal details – address, workplace, etc. – to yourself. You can never be sure of someone you’ve just met – even if they do seem like the nicest person on earth. To take it a step further than you can always have a separate PAYG phone for safe communication without revealing your real number. NEVER invite someone you don’t know into your house. Continue…

First question is always – why make requests on a gay message board? The answer is simple; it’s all about seeking out like-minded gay people who might share your thoughts. A message board is a safe online space to share your innermost fantasies and you can be fairly certain that fellow members are not going to be shocked by your requests – however risqué they are. Continue…

In theory, writing your Gay Personal Ad should be quick and painless; just write a little about yourself and what you are looking for and you’re done. In reality, how you fill out the ad can have dramatically different results. Not everyone wants the same thing and all those subtle little differences are what people subconsciously and consciously pick up on and react to. Continue…

We all have secret sexual desires, every last one of us. Some people have a talent for being brutally honest about what they want, but we can’t all be like that. However, there is absolutely no shame in having secret fantasies and there will always be someone out there who has the same fantasy or wants to make yours come true. The only way you can make it a reality is to be open and honest about it, as hard as that might seem, bringing a fantasy to life can take some work but it will be worth it! Continue…