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We all have secret sexual desires, every last one of us. Some people have a talent for being brutally honest about what they want, but we can’t all be like that. However, there is absolutely no shame in having secret fantasies and there will always be someone out there who has the same fantasy or wants to make yours come true. The only way you can make it a reality is to be open and honest about it, as hard as that might seem, bringing a fantasy to life can take some work but it will be worth it!

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In theory, as we all have secret gay sex desires it shouldn’t be such an issue anymore. But the problem isn’t the fact that we have fantasies, it’s the fear of being judged over the specifics. When people can’t empathise or even sympathise, their natural reaction is to judge and being judged is a miserable feeling, especially when it is over something so private. As a result we keep these things close to our chests and if we do ever reveal them we feel incredibly vulnerable. However, those some of us are strong enough to be open about their desires and know that any judgement is the fault of the other person and not their own.

Sexual Fantasies are Healthy and Exciting

Having secret desires is very healthy and the first step is to be open and honest with yourself about what you want. Some people will claim to have no sexual fantasies, but really they just aren’t comfortable confronting those desires that are lingering on the edge of their minds. When you are open and honest with yourself and explore your body and your sexuality you will be amazed at the things you discover. Accepting your sexual desires allows you to accept yourself and you’ll quickly find your confidence increasing, which is great because that confidence allows you to try and make your fantasies a reality.

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Thanks to the anonymity of the internet, people are finding they can finally be honest about their secret desires in a much safer and more comfortable environment. Being honest is one thing, but being honest to someone’s face is sometimes too much of a task. Men all over the world are opening up about their desires on online forums, confiding in others about what they really want. Some keep finding their minds return to the thought of another man forcing them to give him oral. Or the idea of sucking off a guy with a group of girls watching. A large number of men can’t resist the thought of being with a much older man, while others want to seduce a straight man.

Not all fantasies need to become a reality and some we don’t even want to come true, but in most cases it is empowering to open up about what you want and see that possibility come true. Even if you can only talk about it with someone, being so honest and vulnerable creates a fantastic intimacy with that person and forms a special bond. Once you have opened up with one person and been accepted, it becomes easier to open up with others, you just have to take that first step.