Tips on chatting to someone in a gay chat room

For over twenty years the World Wide Web has been expanding faster than anyone can keep up with. But expanding in a good way with some things available now that have not been in the past. One of these things is the ability to find virtual companionship and love online from the vast pool of fellow internet users.

Virtual Convos!

For the first time, users across the world are free to get to know each other, even if they are thousands of miles apart. One of the ways to get started down this track, whether you’re looking for a friend, a boyfriend or a one-night hook-up, is to visit an internet chatroom like gyascene.org.

But when you do, especially if you’re a first-timer, there are some hints and tips that you could really do with knowing.

1. Choose a unique chat name carefully because, like real life, first impressions count and your online persona will be judged. Make it imaginative so that you stand out and are memorable among the great sea of other chatters.
2. Make sure you include some nice pics of yourself so that others can see what you look like.
3. Join in gradually. Take your time to see what the place is like and whether you think you could fit in. But don’t jump in with both feet and come out with “Hi, want to chat?” because chances are no-one will respond, and they’ll probably think you’re a bit weird so won’t want to chat with you.
4. Have a read through existing conversation topics before you start your own. This move is to make sure that you’re in the right place for what you want to discuss and that you’re not posting about sex positions in a knitting forum.
5. NEVER, EVER give out your personal details on an open forum. Personal details include your name, age, address, place of work, phone numbers, NI number, etc. Offering these details out randomly is the quickest way to be hacked online and potentially stalked in real life. Keep your details secret and if there is someone with whom you wish to share them, then you can direct message them, or even better email them. You do not want to get the wrong people on your case, so make sure that your trust is fully satisfied.
6. Lastly, don’t bombard one chatroom with loads of messages in a short space of time, or skip in and out of chatrooms, never really engaging with fellow users. If you’re genuinely looking to strike up a relationship, then you need to focus on the best virtual place for you.
7. If you are looking for something specific like gay sex, or kinky gay sex, or just new friends they try and be specific about what you are looking for so you can chat with people who want what you want.