The etiquette involved in a gay sex orgy

Now there’s a sentence I bet you’ve never thought you would say! Etiquette? In an orgy? Isn’t the general consensus that orgies are free for all’s?! Apparently not. Going back to the year dot, orgies have always been a ‘thing’. Sexual intercourse is one of the basest human instincts, and for men the urge to spread their seed far and wide is also an evolutionary thing.

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Therefore, it’s no surprise that group sex became the norm in previous generations (hedonistic Romans, anyone?). These days, orgies are less commonplace – but that said, they do still have a place if you know where to look or whom to ask. So, if you’re contemplating joining like-minded others for a bit of sexual fun, bear in mind some of the do’s and don’ts of sex with multiple partners in the same place at the same time:

1. Know what you’re going into and do it in a timely manner. Don’t turn up for a fetish orgy when you actually wanted soft lighting and whale music. Secondly, don’t turn up too late. There’s nothing like a fully-clothed man suddenly walking into a room full of fornicating strangers to dampen the atmosphere!
2. It sounds obvious – but be prepared to join in. An orgy is an orgy for a reason.
3. This has got to be possibly one of the single most important things. And considering that your entire body is probably going to be on show, don’t leave an inch un-scrubbed in the shower. Presenting a freshly washed, soap-smelling body will get you places very quickly.
4. Don’t put on strongly-smelling aftershave/deodorant. Not all people like all smells, and what smells like roses to you might give someone else a headache. Plain soap is the best bet – a nice scent and the surety of cleanliness is a winning combination.
5. Beware the unspoken rules. This is a sharing kind of sex, but there’s still a protocol. Don’t force yourself into a group or any other person. Mutual sex may be a hedonistic affair, but the rules about consent are still very firmly in place.
6. Likewise, the bedroom preferences – don’t forget the foreplay. With an orgy, it’s all too easy to get caught up in the moment and rush straight to the main event.
7. Don’t get jealous. Sounds obvious, right? But if you’re thinking of attending a gay sex orgy as a couple, you must be absolutely sure that it’s the right decision for you both. And it’s worth thinking carefully about this, because a bit of miscommunication can mean months of marital misery if boundaries are crossed that shouldn’t be. Communicate clearly to your partner exactly what is acceptable to you and what is not.

And that’s about it! There are only a couple of hard and fast rules, the rest being gentle guidance on how to have the best time ever at a gay sex orgy. The summer months are upon us, so you never know, you might even find gay group sex action in the great outdoors……….