Dirty Talk is Not Just for Gay Phone Sex

Phone and text sex has become much more common in the last few months but did you know you can now take this new found kinky skill and include that in your bedroom antics when you are allowed to meet for great gay sex again?

Filthy Talk in the Bedroom

Naughty, filthy, dirty talking can really take a regular gay sex session to something really special and memorable. The reason more men don’t do it is because they sometimes feel a little silly or struggle to get started, but if you can get past this then it is an amazing skill to be enhanced and practised to make gay sex great.

Basic Naughty Talk – Whether you are just looking for some naughty phrases for your vanilla sex session or want some vocab for those kinky times remembering the basics is a great way to start. Ensuring the person you are talking to feels as sexy as you are horny is the place to star, you look sexy and I want to do naughty things to you, can sound a little cheesy when written down but in the heat of the moment it is a great place to start fuelling the horniness that is to come.

Sexy Descriptions – You can start talking about what is on your mind, you can talk about a porn film you have seen or a fantasy you have, even if you have no intention of acting it out in that time frame just letting the other person know what makes you horny is a turn on. Being descriptive about the things you like or things you have seen that you like makes it easier for you to get the dirty talk started. The more descriptive you are the more the other person can visualise in their mind what you want to do with them and that is what dirty talk is all about.

Questions get you started – Getting information out of your partner or if you have a lull in what to say but want to keep the dirty talk momentum up is a great time to ask questions of your sexual partner. This is more relevant if you are doing something new or using a new sex toy or piece of equipment, ask how it feels if you put it here, or there. Ask if they want it harder, faster, slower or quicker. Their responses will not only let the dirty talk flow better but give you a better idea on what they like. If you are the sub in this scenario then asking what they are going to do next or how they would like you to behave works well too.

More than Phone Sex – Gayscene.org is a great place for like minded gay men to meet and post personals for what they are looking for and that can include those who want dirty talk. Whether you meet in person or you continue with phone or text sex, the same tips apply and when regulations allow for great gay sex, you can take this new found technique into the bedroom to enhance your sexual adventures.